5 Things I Wish I did not Buy for my New Baby

Having a new baby is such an amazing time of preparation! A time full of excitement, anxiousness, and pure joy! It can also be a time full of lots of questions, especially if it’s your first baby or your first baby in a while! What do I need? What does baby need? What is worth spending my money on?

Having a new baby is an easy time to spend a lot of money on things that may not be necessary. I made a list of The Top 5 Things I Loved for my New Baby and many found it helpful! I thought, you know what, I’ll share the 5 things I wish I hadn’t of spent money on too! Maybe that will help as well! So in case you’re wondering what I personally found not necessary to purchase, then hopefully this helps you!

As with my top 5 list of things I loved, this is very personal! So if you have a different opinion, that’s totally fine! Not to mention, each baby is different in what they like! So it’s possible for one baby to not need something and another baby to need it!

1. Baby Shoes under 12 months

Okay, I know this one is hard because baby shoes are the sweetest thing that have ever been invented! HOWEVER. In total honesty, I cannot even tell you one time that John has successfully worn a pair of shoes since he has been born. When he was little he wore some booties (made of fabric) but when it comes to actual shoes – yeah that didn’t work.

So many people would pay tons of money on name brand shoes for a baby who will outgrow them in literally 2 weeks. And if you have a baby with a massive monster foot like my baby… all the shoes you have will be too small before you even have a chance to put them on him! So, when next baby comes around, one thing I will not buy will be shoes.

Now when walking begins and shoes are a little more sturdy, then I will purchase shoes for John. But until then, just don’t do it. Unless you want to spend 10 minutes re-putting shoes on your baby who continuously kicks them off.

2. Receiving Blankets

Okay so this one may be controversial BUT this is just my experience! Let me tell you why it isn’t necessary to purchase lots of receiving blankets. I have about 10 blankets neatly rolled up in the top drawer of his changing table and I can count on 3 fingers how many times I have used one.

John wasn’t into being swaddled so I didn’t need them for that. He was gifted SO many blankets at his baby shower that I had tons of comfy ones he preferred. Honestly, receiving blankets are way too expensive for the little amount of use that they actually get. Now, many of you will still get some at your baby shower! So if you don’t feel like returning them you can always keep them in your baby bag and use them for public restrooms! I just never really used them so I wish I wouldn’t have spent money on them.

Also the hospital gave us the classic white receiving blanket with the pink and blue stripe, so we kept that for memories!

3. Newborn-Sized Clothes

Now this is for those who have bigger babies in their families. Luckily, I didn’t spend a dime on newborn clothes but was handed down a whole bag full! John was over 8 pounds when he was born and 21.5 inches long, so he really could only wear newborn clothes for maybe a week or two? Had I spent a ton of money on newborn clothes, I would have been very upset! Now if you have preemie babies or small babies run in your family, then it may be worth the money! But I definitely recommend finding cheaper, already used clothes for your baby because they grow out of the sizes so quickly!

Definitely do not spend tons of money on clothes for your new baby! Go by what season your baby will be born and buy maybe 3-5 onesies, cotton pants, zip-up pajamas, and maybe one or two fancy outfits. That’s really all you need!

4. Bumbo Baby Seat

So, many of you who have babies probably loved your bumbo seat! That’s fine! With John, I never really used it at all. His legs were chunky from day 1 and this chair always squeezed him too tightly. It also runs brand new at about 60 bucks, so to pay that for about 5 uses just wasn’t worth it for me.

I definitely won’t use in the future for any more babies because we have chunky, big babies. But you may like it! This is just one of those purchases that wasn’t worth the money for us!

5. Loud Expensive Toys

You’ve probably heard this one before but I will reiterate it! DO NOT buy all kinds of noisy, room-taking-up toys for your new baby. When they start playing around and crawling, they are much more interested in random objects in your house rather than toys.

The toys that have been worth the purchase are just basic toys like balls, blocks, and stuffed animals. Things that John can bite on and easily put in his mouth and hold in his little hands. He may hit a noisy toy once and then moves on to something else. Luckily, we were gifted and passed down toys so I didn’t spend too much, but had I spent a ton of money on these toys I would have been sad!

So that’s my short list of things I wish I would not have bought for a new baby. There’s many other little things but these were the 5 that I mostly think would be helpful! I hope this helps in your journey for answers! Happy homemaking!

The Top 5 Things I Loved for My New Baby

I became a first time mom this year with my precious baby boy, who is now 8 months old (wow how time flies). One of the things I remember the most during my preparation time for his arrival, was panicking about what I needed to have for him! So many opinions, so many differences, so many options, and so much money! I didn’t want to spend tons of money on things that I would never use and regret the purchase! So I waited (which was against my nature) until the baby came for a lot of the things I fell in love with!

Because each baby is different, he told me what I needed rather than some stranger on the internet who had a different baby! So, I know I sound like a hypocrite by giving you a list of what I found useful for my baby, but honestly it’s just to help you out if you want other’s opinions on the matter! If you find your baby is similar to what I describe, then you may love it too!

1. Playtex diaper genie

Some people will say that this is a stupid purchase and you may agree. However, I found it so handy and am still using it 8 months later! I will definitely keep mine for future babies, so all-in-all this is a gift that keeps on giving!

I noticed that middle of the night changes led to diapers piling up on the changing table which sat there all night because let’s face it, my goal was to change, feed, and sleep.

What I found was the next morning the room smelt of whatever contents were in those diapers: pee, poo, pee and poo, you get the picture. So I decided to try the diaper genie and it is everything I hoped for and more! I change it maybe once or twice a month and it holds so many diapers at a time while keeping the stink way down! Traditional trash bags don’t do the job, and unless you feel like running diapers to the trash outside all the time, the diaper genie is for you!

Also, you can get it in different colors too! We chose a mint green that matched little mans nursery and it really tied everything together. I love the diaper genie so much!

2. Munchkin Wipe warmer

So this is actually a product that I said I would NEVER buy prior to having an actual baby. Because obviously we know everything about parenting before actually even having children.

However, you will change your tune if your baby is in any way like my baby was when he was smaller. He ABHORED diaper changes, especially at night. When the cold wet wipe touched his sweet little bottom, my sweet little baby turned into a sweet little nightmare.

My sister had had the wipe warmer and so I thought, why not? It’s very affordable, you can use any wipe brand in it, and it may solve a huge problem! We found baby John absolutely loved having warm wipes on his bottom, and no joke nighttime changes became quicker and easier, and he even fell back asleep faster (not making any promises, just our experience).

So, I definitely recommend a wipe warmer for your little baby’s tush. We love it!

3. dr. browns bottles

So one thing you will learn very quickly, especially if you’re breast feeding, is little babies are VERY gassy. It is so easy for their tummies to build gas bubbles and the littlest thing affects them.

We tried so many different types of bottles before finding Dr. Browns. John constantly had gas at first which led to so many nights of tears and tummy pains. We tried Dr. Brown’s after some research and finally had an answer! Once we switched around 4 months we haven’t turned back! We will definitely buy Dr. Brown for future babies and save tons in money from buying all the other kinds too.

4. formula dispenser

So I breast fed for about a month and realized that baby John ate way too much for my body to handle. So formula came in and saved the day! However, nobody wants to carry formula around with them every where they go; they’re usually pretty bulky and trust me you need the extra room in your diaper bag for all the extra clothes that are absolutely necessary (just ask John about his recent Cracker Barrel blow out).

This allows you to prepare four formula servings at a time and all you have to do is spin the top and empty into your bottle. It’s perfect for traveling with baby, or just preparing ahead of time for nighttime feedings or busy days. It really comes in handy when baby is crying and you only have two hands to get everything ready and quickly.

These are so cheap but very underestimated. I love it so much and truly don’t know what I would have done without it!

5. Zip-UP FOOTLESS PAJAMAS

You have probably heard this one already but it is so true. If you are going to by clothes for your baby, buy zip-ups only! When you’re trying to get them back in their outfit during the night, you don’t want to deal with all of those snap buttons. I promise.

I remember reading a post about it before having a baby and I was like, “It’s not a big deal.” And then I realized as I was choosing outfits for John, especially in the early stages, I always went for the zip-ups because they were so much easier.

I say footless because if your baby consistently stays in the 95 percentile for heighth, they will outgrow quickly footy-pajamas. Footless zip-ups allowed some room for growth so I saved money in the long run. Not to mention I had his little feet out in the open for extra kisses. Definitely something worth buying into!

So, that is my list of my Top 5 Things I Loved for MY baby. I hope it may come in handy for any new mamas out there wondering what the heck to purchase without wasting money! Let me know some things that you loved for your baby! Happy homemaking!